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Sister Lucious Lashes
Sister Zsa Zsa Glamour, Guard The Opressed


A giant glitter-ball hit the planet and Sister Roma emerged from the crater in 1987. Okay, I'm not from outer space, I'm from Michigan (which is even scarier). I moved to San Francisco immediately after graduating from college in 1985. Two years later I was hanging out with friends during happy hour at the Midnight Sun in the Castro. We all had jobs downtown and were standing around in our power-ties, watching videos when this character entered the bar. She looked liked a clown/nun/showgirl and for the first time that evening everyone stopped looking up at the video screens and look at her. The reaction was mixed, to say the least, but she greeted everyone with charm, grace, and a huge smile. Suddenly the queen came up to me and knew me by name - I was stunned! It turned out to be a good friend of mine named Norman who (unbeknownst to me) was also known as Sister Luscious Lashes with the Sisters Of Perpetual Indulgence. I had never heard of the Sisters until that very moment but I was intrigued. I befriended the group and discovered that they were social activists, fundraisers, trailblazers, shit-stirrers, and passionate, talented, amazing people. I started volunteering with them as a boy until one day Luscious suggested that I 'just try the makeup' and my life changed for ever. Sister Roma was born!

Spiritual. I definitely believe that there is more than this. Life is just too miraculous - and more amazing than we can understand while we're busy living it.



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2014 marks Sister Roma’s 27th year as one of the most continuously active, outspoken and highly visible members of the SPI. In December Roma also turns 50 years old, meaning that she has dedicated half of her life to serving the San Francisco LGBTQI community as an activist, fundraiser, public speaker, hostess/Master of Ceremonies, columnist, talk show host, and an arguable gay icon.

Recognizing in herself a desire to create change and improve the quality of life for our community, Roma joined the Sisters in January of 1987. At the time, the San Francisco Order had dwindled to a mere six fully professed active members. Roma is credited with being a major force in the rejuvenation and future growth in the Order; which has grown to over 1,000 members strong in this worldwide non-profit organization.

Since taking her vows, Roma has been on the front lines in the war against HIV and AIDS. At a time when people were getting sick and dying alone, Roma reached out and showed compassion and support for those afflicted with a virus that was still unidentified. Roma embraced members of our community who others were afraid to touch due to the ignorance surrounding infection. It has always been one of Roma’s goals to educate people about HIV and safer sex practices. Roma has volunteered, hosted, and/or MC’d fundraisers for nearly every organization related to HIV education and practical care. All told, Sister Roma has directly or indirectly helped raise over $1 million for her community.

Responding to a rise in hate crimes in the spring of 1989 Sister Roma spearheaded the Stop The Violence (STV) Campaign. Designed to raise awareness to the unsafe conditions in and around San Francisco, STV included a citywide distribution of window placards, safety guidelines, and whistles. This program continued on to include college campuses and cities outside of San Francisco. Although eventually put to rest, Roma and the Sisters reactivated the STV campaign after a series of violent hate crimes hit the Castro and Mission districts in 2010. The program continues today and includes the original safety placards, safety packets, regular free self-defense training and cooperation from the SFPD, CUAV and Castro Community Patrol.

As an outspoken advocate for civil rights, Sister Roma has been often called upon to speak at rallies, marches, and major demonstrations. She also speaks at colleges and universities on topics ranging from HIV/AIDS, homophobia, and drag. Roma has organized, hosted, and/or attended the peaceful demonstrations including the annual AIDS candle light vigil, Prop 8, DADT Repeal, Freedom of Choice, and Occupy SF.

One of San Francisco’s most colorful (and sometimes off-color) Master of Ceremonies, Roma has graced the main stages of SF Pride, Folsom Street Fair, Castro Street Fair, Halloween in the Castro and Easter in Dolores Park just to name a few. Her reputation for being a gracious, and at times, bodacious hostess has spread to include regular annual engagements in Chicago, New Orleans, Los Angeles, and even LifeBall in Vienna.

Roma’s quick wit has also earned her guest spots on radio, television and her own online talk show, the Tim & Roma show, the Internet’s #1 gay-themed live format talk show. Although she claims to be “off-the-rack” Roma has somehow become a fixture hosting adult industry red carpets annually at the GAYVN, Grabby and the Cybersocket Awards. As well as appearing as a regular commentator on local radio including KMEL, Energy 92.7, and 99.7 and even branching out to appear in MTV music videos, independent films, on stage in Ronnie Larsen’s Sleeping With Straight Men, and even spotted on Kathy Griffin’s My Life On The D List.

Roma pens Drag It, one of the gay communities favorite bi-weekly op-ed columns appearing in Gloss Magazine. Roma uses her column to address issues ranging from local events and fundraisers to reality TV to her own personal experiences with substance abuse. With over 100,000 online downloads per issue, Roma claims that more people comment about her writing than any of her public appearances. She is grateful whenever she hears that she has helped someone through a difficult time or personal struggle.

Below is a very partial list of the events, fundraisers and organizations Roma has supported over the last 25 years:


· Folsom Street Fair - Master of Ceremonies (15 years)

· AEF Christmas Eve Dinner - Master of Ceremonies (15 years)

· Easter in Dolores Park– Master of Ceremonies (15 years)

· SF Drag King Contest – Master of Ceremonies (10 years)

· Tenderloin Tessie Holiday Dinners – Greeter/Server (7 years)

· Imperial Court Investiture – Master of Ceremonies (7 years)

· Mr. & Miss Gay SF Contest – MC/Judge (7 years)

· San Francisco Pride - Master of Ceremonies (5 years)

· Halloween In The Castro - Master of Ceremonies (5 years)

· Castro Street Fair – Master of Ceremonies (5 years)

· AIDS Emergency Fund County Fair – Master of Ceremonies

· Black Coalition on AIDS Anniversary – Master of Ceremonies

· Gay Day at Great America - Master of Ceremonies

· SF Fetish Ball – Master of Ceremonies

· Miss Gay California – Master of Ceremonies/Judge

· “SF AIDS Foundation Battles Syphilis” on Public Access - Roundtable Moderator

· “Magnetic Couples: When Opposites Attract” Forum on Serodiscordant Couples – Discussion Moderator

· Mama’s Media Whore – Mama’s Family

· Stonewall 40 Trans Heroes Honoree

· Project Nunway - Judge




· Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence

· Stop AIDS Project

· San Francisco AIDS Foundation

· AIDS Emergency Fund

· Project Open Hand

· Positive Resource Center (PRC)

· Project Inform

· Richmond Ermet AIDS Foundation

· Asian & Pacific Islander Wellness Center (API)

· AIDS Health Project (UCSF)

· AIDS/HIV Nightline

· Black Coalition on AIDS

· Pets Are Wonderful Support (PAWS)

· Folsom Events

· Real Bad

· Center For Sex & Culture


· SF Pride



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